I started college in 1993 and stayed until the government kicked me out-no money! I love listening to live music and I used to be an active disco queen going once or twice a week with a stream of female friends that were single and would hang out together. I recently came to california to be reunited with my sons who are grown and started a new career in fundraising until it seemed impossible to carry on in that as a profession. Like most people, it pays the bills, and provides me with lots of perks. I have few friends since we are all in that stage of life where our jobs are consuming all of our time and family relationships have changed due to seperations caused by job demands. Life changes constantly in directions that leave me wanting the beauty and simplicity of the previous generation.